You might be shocked to see words like 'boasting about wicked ways' associated with that sweet photo from the Titanic. Hollywood cons us into thinking there is nothing wrong with a lovely romantic soft story.

Well there is when it involves sex outside of marriage.

At risk of creating a riot of emails, here it is. Homosexuality, lesbianism, heterosexual casual sex, adultery, affairs, 'harmless fun' whatever you want to call it the Bible is against it. In fact God is very clear that despite having created sex and it being seen as something good (there is a whole book in the bible all about sex for goodness sake!) there are certain boundaries to be adhered to. Like not going back into a hotel room late at night under the influence of alcohol with an attractive member of the opposite sex for example!

Please don't think God is anti sex or anti you. He simply wants whats best for you, and just like trying to function in a posioness atmosphere isn't good for you, trying to function outside the parameters God has set might be fun for a while but it will surely end in tears!

Of course, if you are in the position of having got yourself into a sticky mess there is no one better equipped to help you get out of it than your maker, so please don't think you have blown it and he now doesn't want to know you. Get it sorted out and if you need help doing so then seek some out.