John Piper asks, what if one or both partners in a marriage become
overwhelmed by the grace of God and say �I will no longer think merely in
terms of whether my expectations are met in practice. I will, for
Christ�s sake, regard my wife (or husband) the way God regards
me�complete and accepted in Christ�and to be helped and
blessed and nurtured and cherished, even if in practice there are
shortcomings.�